Monday, February 14, 2011

now,i know.

THIS IS COPIED FROM MY TUMBLR ACCOUNT.
lately, i've been into Tumblr more than blogger. dont know why.
now,i know.

marriage is the last thing on my mind because i have “not so good” experience abt that stuff (actually,my parents' experience). But, that was 6 months ago.that was my opinion in 6 months ago.

Since i worked in Jakarta, esp in this company. I found so many living proof. above 30. lonely and grumpy. well, there are some good living proof tho. i mean like, above 30 and happy. but it’s just SOME. not MANY of THEM. like, when u look at a pie diagram, the HAPPY is 20% out of 100%. Not promising, rite? small amount.

lets just make a list do and donts abt marriage life ..(in my opinion)

DO’s :

  1. because you have someone who loves u and u love them,too
  2. because you and ur couple wanna make a LEGAL relationship when you too have babies and sleep together
  3. because you want to BUILD something. u wanna leave MARKS for the future. the GOOD marks.
  4. because .. i dont wanna be the LONELY and GRUMPY examples whom i seen at my office

DONT’s :

  1. when you dont have any partner to be married with (so clear)
  2. when u dont think marriage is suitable for your life (ur too selfish to share ur life with someone else)
  3. when u like changing partner randomly
  4. when u think having great career is better than having spouse

So yeah. even if its equal in DO’s and DONT’s, well i prefer DO’s as well. because the fourth reason in DO’s. i just dont wanna be ‘that girl’. being lonely is scarry, but being lonely and grumpy is WORST.

1 comment:

  1. Hahahahahha tapi kebanyakan orang “being lonely and GRUMPY” ya nyong. Hiiii please please demi barongsai gw ngga mau jadi old-maid --____--“

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